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Networking. An introvert’s nemesis, an extrovert’s strength and a single mom’s power move. Networking is a single mom’s bridge to endless opportunities, when done right.
It is however not always an easy terrain to navigate, and can feel awkward especially for a single mother.
It’s no wonder so many single moms feel like traditional networking just doesn’t work for them.
Here’s the truth though: you don’t need to attend every in-person event or stay out late at industry cocktail parties to grow a meaningful network. You can build strong professional relationships, grow your career, and open new doors, all on your own terms.
In this guide, we’ll break down how to network as a single mom with strategies that respect your time, honor your hustle, and tap into your unique strengths.
1. The Redefinition Of Networking
First, let’s redefine the word “networking.” It’s not just walking around in heels at corporate events with a glass in hand.
It’s about building genuine relationships that are mutually beneficial, with people you can learn from, support, collaborate with, or be inspired by.
Even down to all the ‘mundane’ stuff that you haven’t really paid attention to. That conversation with another mom at your kid’s school? Networking. That message you sent to a former colleague just to check in? Networking. A comment on someone’s LinkedIn post? You guessed it.
Shift your mindset. You’re already networking. You just didn’t know that was its name.
2. Embrace Digital Networking
Time is precious when you’re a single mom. Between parenting, work, and everything else, getting dressed up to attend a two-hour event may not be your utmost priority. This is why digital networking is a game-changer.
Try These:
- LinkedIn: Polish your profile and start engaging with industry leaders or groups.
- Twitter/X: Follow professionals in your field and jump into conversations with thoughtful replies.
- Facebook groups: Join niche career-focused groups for moms or single parents.
- Webinars and virtual summits: Many offer live chats and breakout rooms, perfect for networking from your kitchen.
Start small. Commit to commenting on one LinkedIn post per day or thrice every week. That’s a five-minute investment that can lead to real relationships over time.
3. Make Networking Part of Your Routine
You need consistency and not necessarily a lot of time. Just five minutes while your child naps or 10 minutes during your lunch break can make networking a part of your daily rhythm.
Easy Daily Habits To Adopt
- Respond to a message or email from a colleague
- Send a thank-you or check-in text to a past mentor or boss
- Share an interesting blog(like this one) on your LinkedIn feed
- Join a relevant conversation in an online group
4. Don’t Be Afraid to Talk About Being a Mom
There’s power in your story. Being a single mom is part of who you are and it’s often the reason behind your resilience, time-management skills, and ability to thrive under pressure.
You don’t need to hide your identity as a mom to appear “professional.” In fact, leading with authenticity can create deeper, more human connections.
The right network will admire your strength,and not question your commitment.
5. Lean Into Local (and Mom-Friendly) Events
If you prefer in-person interaction, look for family-friendly networking events, women-in-business seminars, or local workshops that offer childcare or flexible hours. These exist more than you think and they’re often filled with people who understand your situation.
Where to Look:
- Meetup.com (search “working moms” or “professional women”)
- Local coworking spaces with events
- Faith-based women’s career groups
- Your child’s school or activity center (seriously—some of the best connections happen on the sidelines of soccer games).
6. Create Your Own Networking Circle
Can’t find the right group? Create one. Sometimes, the best way to network as a single mom is to bring people together yourself. It can be as simple as a WhatsApp group of professional moms, a virtual chat every month, or a private Facebook community.
When you create space, people show up and you could become the center of your own powerful network.
7. Follow Up
Life gets busy. You might meet someone great, exchange info, and then not follow up for weeks. That’s okay. When you remember to, follow up anyway. Most people understand life gets hectic, and a thoughtful message after a delay is still better than silence.
Try something simple like:
“Hi (name), I loved our conversation about (topic) at (event). Things have been busy with work and home life, but I’d still love to stay in touch.”
Networking isn’t about quick sprints. It’s about running a long marathon.
8. Ask for Help (And Offer It)
Here’s the golden rule of networking: give as much as you take.
Ask for help when you need it’ whether it’s an introduction, advice, or just a safe space. And also offer value where you can. That might mean sharing a job lead, encouraging someone, or tagging a friend in an opportunity. Where you can’t offer value, offer gratitude.
Connections deepen when there’s a real exchange of support.
9. Prioritize Quality Over Quantity
You don’t need 500 new LinkedIn connections. You need 5-10 meaningful relationships with people who understand your goals and cheer you on.
Focus on nurturing a few key relationships over time. They’re the ones who will open doors, advocate for you, and show up when it counts.
How about we start with a little challenge. Ready?
Write down the names of three people you’d like to reconnect with this month. Send each one a message. That’s it.
10. Network With a Purpose
Time is your most limited, valuable resource. So when you do make the effort to network, be intentional. What’s your goal?
- Are you looking for job opportunities?
- Wanting to learn about a new field?
- Searching for mentorship or accountability?
Knowing your purpose will guide your conversations and help you make the most of your energy.
Here’s another challenge for you. Create a 15-second “personal pitch” so when someone asks, “What do you do?” you’re ready with something honest and unforgettable.
Sample Personal Pitch:
“I’m a marketing strategist and single mom of two. I help small businesses grow their online presence, and I’m currently looking to connect with other women in digital marketing.”
Simple. Relatable. And Professional.
Final Thoughts: You Belong.
Networking as a single mom might look different, but that doesn’t make it less effective. Your experience, your journey and your tenacity are all strengths that belong at any table.
You don’t need to wait until your life “slows down” to start making career moves. You have the power, the skills, and the presence to build a thriving network right now.
So take the first step. Send the message. Join the group. Tell your story. Your people are out there, and they’re waiting to finally meet you.
FAQs: Networking for Single Moms
1. I don’t have time to network. Where do I even start?
Start small. One comment or message per day. Join one online group. Make networking part of your daily scroll instead of a big “event.”
2. Is it okay to mention that I’m a single mom when networking?
Absolutely. It’s part of your identity—and it highlights your strength, time-management skills, and resilience. The right people will respect that.
3. How can I make professional connections if I don’t have childcare?
Virtual events, DMs, and online communities are your best bet. Look for groups that understand family dynamics and don’t require late-night or in-person attendance.
4. What if I’m starting over in my career? Will people take me seriously?
Yes! Everyone starts somewhere. Lead with your story, showcase your strengths, and look for mentors who’ve been there too.
5. Where can I find networking communities specifically for single moms?
Check out this blog on Support groups for working moms to find specific communities for you.
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