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As we gear closer to celebrating this year’s Mother’s Day, I cannot help but think about a baby’s growth in the womb; right from the stage of an embryo to a fetus, all through till full term when the baby is ready to be born. The baby while in the womb is fully dependent on the mother for nourishment for growth.
Similarly, a seedling cannot thrive without sunlight, water, and rich soil. So are we—growing human beings—dependent on the right inputs to flourish in every sphere of our lives. Growth is not just about breaking through the surface; it’s about what happens afterward. What are you feeding your mind, soul, and spirit?
Let’s explore these four (4) vital nutrients for growth:
1. Mentorship: The Sunlight That Guides Direction
Sunlight guides a plant upward—it instinctively leans toward the light. In the same way, mentors and coaches help direct us toward our potential. Their insight illuminates the path ahead, helping us avoid pitfalls and stretch toward purpose.
“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” – Proverbs 15:22 (NIV)
Think about that first strong shoot that breaks through the soil. It doesn’t know the exact path but follows the light. That’s what mentorship offers—a trustworthy guide toward growth. Whether in business, faith, or life, mentorship helps us discern the way forward with wisdom we haven’t yet gained.
2. Continuous Learning: The River That Never Runs Dry
A plant without water becomes brittle and breaks. So do we when we stop learning. Education and curiosity soften the soul, keeping it pliable and resilient. True growth requires a continuous pouring in of new knowledge, experiences, and perspectives.
“Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance.” – Proverbs 1:5 (ESV)
Even when a tree reaches maturity, it still draws water. It still absorbs sunlight. It still grows rings within its trunk each year. The lesson? Growth doesn’t stop once you “arrive.” In fact, thinking you’ve arrived is often the first sign that you’ve stopped growing.
“Do you see a person wise in their own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for them.” – Proverbs 26:12 (NIV)
No matter your title, age, or level of success, there’s always more to learn. The wisest people are often the most teachable. They remain humble enough to ask questions, to listen deeply, and to admit when they don’t know something.
Think of Paul, one of the most influential apostles, who despite his knowledge and spiritual maturity said:
“Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on…” – Philippians 3:12 (NIV)
He presses on—always seeking, always growing. That is the mindset of a lifelong learner.
So ask yourself:
- What book, course, or conversation is stretching your thinking right now?
- Are you making time to listen to others who know more—or even just differently—than you?
Don’t let perceived arrival become the ceiling of your potential. Stay thirsty.
3. Constructive Criticism: The Pruning for Better Fruit
Gardeners know this well—pruning is essential. Removing dead or misdirected branches helps the plant direct energy toward the right places. In life, constructive criticism does the same. Though uncomfortable, it clears the way for healthier growth.
“My Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit… while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.” – John 15:1-2 (NIV)
Not all feedback feels good, but wise is the person who listens. Embrace critique as nourishment—not poison. It’s God’s way of shaping your direction, cutting what hinders and refining what matters.
4. Community: The Rich Soil of Support
The richest soil isn’t found in isolation—it’s full of microorganisms working together, breaking down nutrients, and fostering life. Likewise, a strong community provides emotional and spiritual sustenance. You grow faster and stronger when rooted in the right environment.
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17 (NIV)
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” – Galatians 6:2 (NIV)
Surround yourself with encouragers, challengers, and truth-tellers. Growth is a communal miracle, not a solo endeavor.
What Are You Feeding On to Grow?
As you reflect on your own growth process, ask yourself:
- Who are the mentors shining light into your life?
- What kind of learning are you immersing yourself in?
- How are you receiving critique—with humility or resistance?
- Is your community nourishing you or depleting you?
As I end this Part 4 in the series of “The Growth Process”, I leave you with this verse of scripture:
“Blessed is the one… whose delight is in the law of the Lord… That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season.” – Psalm 1:1-3 (NIV)
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